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From: aleemamer@yahoo.com
Date: 31/01/2017 22:17 (GMT+05:00)
To: Amer Aleem <ameraleem@gmail.com>
Subject: Tips on How To Be A Successful Husband !!
Every relationship has some rights and obligations. The beautiful relationship between husband and wife is no exception to this. One of the signs of Allah is the love and affection He puts in our hearts for our spouses. Allah says in the Qur'an:
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought."
(30:21)
Successful marriage requires that every person focus more on his/her obligations towards others instead of his/her rights. Below are few tips for brothers in this regard:
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too.
2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt her feelings.
3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day – which brings no attention from the husband – until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.
4. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.
5. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!
6. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.
7. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah – radi Allahu 'anha – was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.
8. Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah – SalAllahu alayhi wa sallam – would race his wife Aisha – radi Allahu 'anha – in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?
9. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger – SalAllahu alayhi wa sallam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best!
Tips on How To Be A Successful Wife will be shared soon.
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